Could I get some advice on guy problems?

I've been with my boyfriend for about a month now. On Tuesday he called me for about 5 minutes but told me he would call me later that night. He didn't end up calling and on Wednesday called and I mentioned it and he said he was busy. We once again only talked for about 5 minutes and he promised to call me again that night. Once again no call! So Today he calls and we talked for a little while and he promised to call me tonight to let me know some information about his cross country race and whether or not we were going to hang out. Let's just say he didn't call once again. I'm not planning on going to the race tomorrow because of this but could you guys tell me what you would do in this situation? Oh ya! Just to add onto the problem I'm kinda finding myself liking my best guy friend who has been there for me these last 3 nights since my boyfriend wasn't.


Thanks alot you guys for any advice you give me!Could I get some advice on guy problems?
Well first of all, never cheat- just break up with this other guy if you are interested in this guy, But maybe you need to just take some time for you in there. Don't want to rebound with this best friend - you may just feel this attraction since he was there for you and moving it to a different relationship could ruin the friendship so just beware of that.





Ok - now with this guy - leave him alone and if he calls, he calls. Relationships are based on trust, respect and communication and it sounds like maybe all three of these but definately two are lacking - no communication and no respect - for you. HE is also being very inconsiderate and rude saying he will call and then leaving you hanging. I would make plans without him at all and then if he has a problem with that - just let him know you can't make maybe plans based on if and when he will call - that is no boyfriend. There are guys that will respect you and want to talk to you - and this guy sounds too consumed with the rest of his life to make you a priority and if that is important to you (it would be to me) then you need to find another guy. I am assuming you are kind of young - not in your mid 20s - younger than that maybe 16-19 and you have to know that you should be getting to know you and what you are looking for in a guy - there is no need to commit to anyone - even if you were in your 20s this holds true but even more in your teens - date people, get to know what is out there and what you like. No need to have a boyfriend all of the time - you can see other people. This guy and you obviously want different things and have different priorities - he is one of yours but you are not one of his. He seems to ';fit you in'; when he feels like it - makes it all about him and not about you - he is selfish. I would just let him go and move on but if you are not ready to do that, don't call him at all anymore until he gets some respect and make you are priority and gives you the consideration you deserve. Don't go to that race like you said - make other plans and as hard as it may be DON';T call him - at all and don't make it a priority to call him back either. Let him know if he does call that he can't just fit you in when it is convenient for him - that is not what a relationship is about - it is 50/50 but it sounds like 99/1 so he has to give more and be there for you more - you need someone who puts you first or close to it or at least includes you in whatever he does - this guy is clearly not like that so I would cut him off and move on - good luckCould I get some advice on guy problems?
You've been seeing the guy a WHOLE MONTH, and he's apparently training for a race, talks to you these 3 days but doesn't get back to you like he says, you've been hanging with a guy 'friend' these 3 days that the bf hasn't gotten back to you, and you are already ready to leave your bf for this other boy? It sounds like you are too young to be in ANY kind of relationship! I hope you never decide to get married and if you do, I pray for your husband to be.
well it seems like this happens all to often to you. if you dont mind then i guess its kool but if you like your guy friend then go with him at least you know if you two get together he will treat you right!
i thk ur guy is dating two gals simultaneously.and i ahv my words he is.though i am not god but i hav experienced the same thng.and later i found that he was engaged to a galfor a long time and resorted on me only wen she was not available or they had an argument.so b open about this since beginning and make him clear that u wont tolerate otrherwise he ll take u for granted.





well i thnk ur best frend is owing to his frendship andbeing by ur side.i thnk he has sum feelings for u
Seriously- don't even mess with this - just tell the no caller you're busy next time he calls, ';I'm sorry I can't talk right now, I'm real busy.'; and be through with it. If your friend has been there for you- that's a good sign - he'll continue to be there for you and call you when he says he will and not play games.
go for your guy friend...the other one's a huge asshole...
it sounds like he is not that interested in you any more. Are you sure that he does not have a girl on the side? I would pay attention and see if there are any other signs showing... If the guy friend is better suited, and he likes you back, then go for it.. you deserve to be happy
Haha..sounds like you have a problem. And I hate to say this..but if your waiting every night by your phone for him to call, then you have no life. Just do what you do, and if he calls then its cool. You shouldn't obsess over soemthing this minor.
if your bf is too busy for you than he isnt worth going out with unless what hes doing is important. ive had the same problem with my ex bf. does your friend like you? if you two like each other than go for it unless your bf can come up with an excuse
Maybe he thinks your clingy or he may be busy. Sounds to me like you dont like him that much. Maybe you should move on.
you've been w/ ur bf for just a month and now you're liking another guy friend who's been there for your when ur bf couldn't call u as he promised? granted it sounds like ur being dissed, but it doesn't sound like you're ready to be in a steady relationship... good luck with what you're looking for.
don't talk to your BF over the phone. Sit down with him, with no one else around and discuss your concern with him. If the conversation starts to get violent, any yelling, etc, let him know that you want to discuss this in a calmer setting (as you should) and he can continue if he's able to. Find out what a relationship means to you, what you want from it, what he wants from it and is this current one bringing you what you want in a relationship.





It sounds like you're still in HS so you shouldn't be expecting him to be there 24/7 as he does have a life. People smother each other too often without understanding or realizing boundaries. However, based on what you are saying, he doesn't seem to be a man of his word. To keep calling you to only speak for a a few min then leave you hanging is not something he should be doing to a person, especially his GF/Sig other.





Understand deep down inside how you feel about your current boyfriend and how you feel with this best guy friend. Don't sacrifice your emotional needs simply ';because'; he's your boyfriend. Go for what will give you peace of mind and heart.
hummmm, sounds like you already answered this yourself! without any help
If a guy don't call...he isn't interested. At least not romantically. Most guys have guy friends that they can go months or even years and not speak..but they still consider each other to be friends. Chicks aren't like that..they want constant affirmation. Leave the poor guy alone and move on.
Go with your best guy friend. the other guy doesnt know whathe wants and will keep doing it. if he does it now, he will always do it. Always go with the guy who likes you more then you like him. Things are less confusing that way.
I think that you are making a river over a glass of water. Don't stress about it because you have only been going out with this guy for a month and he is already making you upset, no no no. Not good at all. Some people just simply don't like to be in the phone. One thing don't call him let him call you, and don't answer his first or second call just make your self play hard to get and like that he would pay a little more close attention to you...
dont waste your time sitting next to the phone waiting
He ethier has someone else,or is too wrapped up in his own ****
So he's being a little slack? i dont think that's a reason for completely bailing out! maybe he WAS busy and had things to do. Sometimes people have other things in their lives than lavishing attentions on someone - for god's sake dont automatically assume the worst or do anything stupid because of a tiny thing like this. you need to know a LOT more first.