Can I please get some advice?

I used to be with a guy but we broke up because, even though it was online and we had never met, i was married (not legally, just been together for 3 years) and my husband had found out.


Now i have my ex always after me, telling me how much he loves me still, in spite of everything.


My husband doesn't really show much affection and have not much in common, but i still remember how my ex made me feel, so happy and in love.


How should I handle this...what should i do?Can I please get some advice?
How can you call him 'husband' and hes actually NOT? Talk to your boyfriend and discuss things that are a problem in your relationship, if he doesn't change, then maybe you guys should say goodbye. good luck.Can I please get some advice?
Your situation is very confusing. Are you married? What do you mean by not legally? If you do not have a marriage license recognized by the court then by law you are not married. Why have you spent three years of your life in a completely unsatisfying relationship? Other than your online fling, have you ever been involved with this guy? It is obvious what you want to do. So, you are asking for permission to cheat on your ';husband'; of three years. You have two choices: honor your commitment or leave him and pursue a relationship with your ';ex'; whom you clearly have feelings for.
Stick with your husband. You made a commitment to him and you have an obligation to stand by that. You should make an effort to rekindle the fire. Relationships are up and down.. don't ditch it just because you're in a slump. It's definitely not worth abandoning because of an online relationship..
FIRST THINGS FIRST HE'S NOT YOUR HUSBAND SO YOU CAN LEAVE HIM AND IF THIS COMPUTER GUY IS CLOSE TO YOU AND YOU ARE ABLE TO MEET DO IT BECAUSE IF HE MADE YOU FEEL THE WAY YOU DID AND YOUR ';HUSBAND'; COULDN'T DONT HOLD BACK
If you're in the U.S. then that's not how common law marriage works. If you aren't in the U.S. then I have no idea.





Anyway it sounds like you don't even like this guy you are with, dump him and move on!
It was probably some fat old man on the computer getting his jollies off.